A friend of the family (man) is married with one child. He is a cheater. In an effort to keep the heat off of him and his extracurricular activities - this guy moved his wife and child to what they thought was a better life in another state. The deal was - was that he still had to run his business in the old state where they lived. It wasn't portable. He would have had to start all over again or hire someone to manage the business. Un - not going to happen! So he wouldn't be home several days a week....in the words of Scoobie Doo "Rut-Ro!"
This guy called his wife one night to speak to his 8 year old son. His son politely told his dad that his mom was in the bedroom with Mr. Bobby (name changed of course:), and that she couldn't come to the phone. So he asked who Mr. Bobby was and his son told him that he was mommy's friend who came by two days a week. The same two dayse -every week. And when he came by, he wasn't allowed to sleep with his mother (which he normally did).
Well - our friend of course is screaming "divorce" -- but you know what I was thinking...How dare you move your wife a few states away to keep your patootie out of trouble and want to scream divorce when she is acting out of desperation. She doesn't know too many people in the new area - and a lonely wife in a nice big house is a dream situation for some men.
So what am I saying here is men - keep your wives close! Because we are human too and there is but so much we can take. We don't care how extravagant the lifestyle is. Loneliness is not a normal human state of being. We like to be in partnerships and packs - not solo!
Ladies -- don't let this happen. You know what you are capable of not capable of. Of course you want the best life for your children (which motivated this guy's wife to go ahead with the move), but again, loneliness is a powerful state of being. Make wise decisions about your life and your marriage. Make sure they make sense.
-GirlShrink
*Coming Soon - The Revised Adultery Recovery Guide!
