There are many women out here that are trying to do it all. Have a great career. Be a great mother. A loving wife. But sometimes they find that with all their hard work and energy and dedication - the "passion" between their husband and themselves has all but evaporated.
"Why doesn't he look at me with loving eyes anymore? Or with lustful eyes?"
Sometimes a man just looks bored. Or tired. And that is just too much for some women to bear. Especially when you feel that you have done everything you can to keep things moving in a positive direction.
So some of us look for that person who is going to look at us like we are fantastic. Like you use to look at us. Like we know that we still are - somewhere - still fantastic.
And then some of us find that person...and then we CHEAT.
Turn things around today and Bring Back Your Lost Love.
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Is Her Cheating Out of Character?
There are some spouses who are not REALLY surprised if they catch their spouses cheating. Usually because they have suspected it all along or at least felt for sometime that something wasn't quite right.
But then there are many of you who are taken completely by surprise. And sometimes rightly so. Sometimes a spouse is cheating and its completely out of character for her because she is under the influence of alcohol or drugs.
Make sure that there isn't a bigger issue in your marriage. If there is drug or alcohol abuse -- then your wife's infidelity's are only a by-product of a bigger issue.
Rule out those things first if you are completely baffled. Because there are soccer moms hooked on crystal meth, stripping online via webcam, and sleeping with the school's gym teacher. Make sure that isn't your life!
If you think or know that addiction is your battle and you are looking for some solutions try working on eliminating the addiction first--with a little all-natural help.
Much success to you!
--GirlShrink
http://www.girlshrink.com
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According to statistics, nearly a third of American spouses will commit adultery during their relationship. If this is you or even worse your spouse, then this is the right book for you to read -- right away!
Cheaters: The 7 Step Guide On What To Do About A Cheater
Get your free guide here: http://www.girlshrink.com/books_ebooks.html
But then there are many of you who are taken completely by surprise. And sometimes rightly so. Sometimes a spouse is cheating and its completely out of character for her because she is under the influence of alcohol or drugs.
Make sure that there isn't a bigger issue in your marriage. If there is drug or alcohol abuse -- then your wife's infidelity's are only a by-product of a bigger issue.
Rule out those things first if you are completely baffled. Because there are soccer moms hooked on crystal meth, stripping online via webcam, and sleeping with the school's gym teacher. Make sure that isn't your life!
If you think or know that addiction is your battle and you are looking for some solutions try working on eliminating the addiction first--with a little all-natural help.
Much success to you!
--GirlShrink
http://www.girlshrink.com
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According to statistics, nearly a third of American spouses will commit adultery during their relationship. If this is you or even worse your spouse, then this is the right book for you to read -- right away!
Cheaters: The 7 Step Guide On What To Do About A Cheater
Get your free guide here: http://www.girlshrink.com/books_ebooks.html
Catching Your Cheating Spouse in the Act!
Infidelity is a serious betrayal. And people do not take it lightly. In fact, I haven't met anyone to date who didn't care that their partner was cheating. Even if they weren't surprised by it - it still hurt. And of course there was always the chance that their partner wouldn't do what they thought they would do.
So if you are pretty sure that your spouse or mate is cheating on you - you are probably angry or hurt or confused right now. You're not exactly sure what to do, but you do know that when its time to approach him or her you want to be sure. You want to have facts. You don't want to leave any room for him or her to wiggle out of the accusation. And of course you want to be right when you go accusing people of cheating!
So you begin to fantasize about being a fly on the wall. Buying video cameras! Listening devices! Private investigators. But should you do all that to catch your cheating spouse?
Should you expend all that energy, time, and money into proving to him or her and ultimately yourself that they are being unfaithful and untrustworthy?
Honestly--I say no. I am a BIG believer of following your instincts. If you "know" in your gut that your mate is up to no good the first time, second time, etc., then you should probably act on those feelings--within reason of course.
If you know yourself to be paranoid when it comes to trust issues, then perhaps your "gut" could lead you astray. But if you know yourself to be basically a rational person, and if you suspect your partner is up to something, you are probably right.
If listening to your inner voice is not what you are trying to hear, then I suggest you begin your investigation on a smaller-scale basis. Several clients I know have tried an online investigation site that is a fraction of the cost of hiring a private investigator and is really more discreet. No meeting anyone or talking on the phone.
With today's information age, there are plenty of sites that make it possible for you to track down information on your mate or who he or she is cheating with.
I recommend Web Detective Online Detective Service. To learn more about it Click Here! Much success!
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--GirlShrink
http://www.girlshrink.com
According to statistics, nearly a third of American spouses will commit adultery during their relationship. If this is you or even worse your spouse, then this is the right book for you to read -- right away!
Cheaters: The 7 Step Guide On What To Do About A Cheater
Get your free guide here: Get Free Guide!
So if you are pretty sure that your spouse or mate is cheating on you - you are probably angry or hurt or confused right now. You're not exactly sure what to do, but you do know that when its time to approach him or her you want to be sure. You want to have facts. You don't want to leave any room for him or her to wiggle out of the accusation. And of course you want to be right when you go accusing people of cheating!
So you begin to fantasize about being a fly on the wall. Buying video cameras! Listening devices! Private investigators. But should you do all that to catch your cheating spouse?
Should you expend all that energy, time, and money into proving to him or her and ultimately yourself that they are being unfaithful and untrustworthy?
Honestly--I say no. I am a BIG believer of following your instincts. If you "know" in your gut that your mate is up to no good the first time, second time, etc., then you should probably act on those feelings--within reason of course.
If you know yourself to be paranoid when it comes to trust issues, then perhaps your "gut" could lead you astray. But if you know yourself to be basically a rational person, and if you suspect your partner is up to something, you are probably right.
If listening to your inner voice is not what you are trying to hear, then I suggest you begin your investigation on a smaller-scale basis. Several clients I know have tried an online investigation site that is a fraction of the cost of hiring a private investigator and is really more discreet. No meeting anyone or talking on the phone.
With today's information age, there are plenty of sites that make it possible for you to track down information on your mate or who he or she is cheating with.
I recommend Web Detective Online Detective Service. To learn more about it Click Here! Much success!
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--GirlShrink
http://www.girlshrink.com
According to statistics, nearly a third of American spouses will commit adultery during their relationship. If this is you or even worse your spouse, then this is the right book for you to read -- right away!
Cheaters: The 7 Step Guide On What To Do About A Cheater
Get your free guide here: Get Free Guide!
I Married The Wrong Person
There is nothing more frightening, I imagine, for a spouse to realize that he or she has married the wrong person.
I mean that's a strong statement. But people tell me that quite often.
But there's a reason why a lot of men run from marriage - it's a binding agreement. On paper and in your head.
And someone who realizes that they have married the wrong person begins to feel trapped. Smothered. Like there is no way out. Because of course asking someone for a divorce is a serious thing. Leaving one life to begin a whole new other one is serious business.
But what on earth are your options if you married the wrong person?
Well, like many men and women around the globe - spouses don't leave - they cheat.
If you are in a 13 year marriage and knew in year 2 that you made a horrible mistake - ask yourself what are you doing?
Someone is going to get hurt. And it could be you.
Either make the effort to love the relationship that you are in and committed to you - or walk away.
Even cheating on the WRONG person is simply...not a very nice thing to do!
-GirlShrink
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I mean that's a strong statement. But people tell me that quite often.
But there's a reason why a lot of men run from marriage - it's a binding agreement. On paper and in your head.
And someone who realizes that they have married the wrong person begins to feel trapped. Smothered. Like there is no way out. Because of course asking someone for a divorce is a serious thing. Leaving one life to begin a whole new other one is serious business.
But what on earth are your options if you married the wrong person?
Well, like many men and women around the globe - spouses don't leave - they cheat.
If you are in a 13 year marriage and knew in year 2 that you made a horrible mistake - ask yourself what are you doing?
Someone is going to get hurt. And it could be you.
Either make the effort to love the relationship that you are in and committed to you - or walk away.
Even cheating on the WRONG person is simply...not a very nice thing to do!
-GirlShrink
Are you depressed? In a bad relationship? Been cheated on? There are experts waiting to help you RIGHT NOW at GirlShrink.com
Cheating is Forever
Some people believe that a one-night-stand or a brief affair can be fixed and forgotten like any small error.
Not!
If you are in place in your marriage where you are considering having an affair - then go to the source of that problem and try to fix it. Going outside of your relationship will only complicate things. And not because it is the "wrong" thing to do. The immoral thing to do. The immature choice to make. But because it will forever be with you. You will NEVER forget it.
*Mary was a woman who was patiently waiting to marry her beau of 5 years. Problem was - was that he just wasn't there. He wasn't ready. And finally, something in Mary gave up. She didn't believe in her relationship any longer. She knew that she was never going to get married. Not to him. And as fate would have it she met Phillip.
Mary and Phillip were inseparable for about four months. And they were months of some of the best sex of her life. And here comes fate again - acting funny - and Mary's beau decides that he can't live without her and proposes on a moonlit night in July. Mary accepts. Marries him. But almost every time she has sex with her husband - she sees a flash of Phillip. Now that's not good for a new marriage...or any marriage.
We all may occasionally think about an old lover - hey, that's the chance you take when you marry someone who isn't a virgin:) But having these little one-night-stands and occasional office affairs - will only complicate your marriage and will always assure that it isn't just the two of you in the bedroom - there will always be three. And three's a crowd!
*Names changed
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Not!
If you are in place in your marriage where you are considering having an affair - then go to the source of that problem and try to fix it. Going outside of your relationship will only complicate things. And not because it is the "wrong" thing to do. The immoral thing to do. The immature choice to make. But because it will forever be with you. You will NEVER forget it.
*Mary was a woman who was patiently waiting to marry her beau of 5 years. Problem was - was that he just wasn't there. He wasn't ready. And finally, something in Mary gave up. She didn't believe in her relationship any longer. She knew that she was never going to get married. Not to him. And as fate would have it she met Phillip.
Mary and Phillip were inseparable for about four months. And they were months of some of the best sex of her life. And here comes fate again - acting funny - and Mary's beau decides that he can't live without her and proposes on a moonlit night in July. Mary accepts. Marries him. But almost every time she has sex with her husband - she sees a flash of Phillip. Now that's not good for a new marriage...or any marriage.
We all may occasionally think about an old lover - hey, that's the chance you take when you marry someone who isn't a virgin:) But having these little one-night-stands and occasional office affairs - will only complicate your marriage and will always assure that it isn't just the two of you in the bedroom - there will always be three. And three's a crowd!
*Names changed
Are you depressed? In a bad relationship? Been cheated on?
There are experts waiting to help you RIGHT NOW at GirlShrink.com
The Kids Are Driving Me Crazy
Sometimes a wife who considers cheating on her husband is simply overwhelmed with life. Her house is a wreck. Her kids are driving her crazy. Her job is stressing her out. And there just never seems to be enough hours in the day to attend to her needs as well as everyone else's in the house.
Idea? "Why not find someone who values my time a little more than they seem to do at home."
Result? The Cheating Wife.
Solution? There is nothing sexier than a man who REALLY attempts to lighten the load. Wash a few dishes. Go over the kid's homework. Clean up the kitchen. Pick up the clothes lying on the floor of the kid's rooms. Call the plumber and stop thinking you can fix it later. You haven't!
If you are part of the process of alleviating her frustration - she won't need to go elsewhere to relieve it.
Makes sense doesn't it? Believe me it works.
Much Success!
Are you depressed? In a bad relationship? Been cheated on? There are experts waiting to help you RIGHT NOW at GirlShrink.com
Idea? "Why not find someone who values my time a little more than they seem to do at home."
Result? The Cheating Wife.
Solution? There is nothing sexier than a man who REALLY attempts to lighten the load. Wash a few dishes. Go over the kid's homework. Clean up the kitchen. Pick up the clothes lying on the floor of the kid's rooms. Call the plumber and stop thinking you can fix it later. You haven't!
If you are part of the process of alleviating her frustration - she won't need to go elsewhere to relieve it.
Makes sense doesn't it? Believe me it works.
Much Success!
Are you depressed? In a bad relationship? Been cheated on? There are experts waiting to help you RIGHT NOW at GirlShrink.com
My Wife Won't Have Sex With Me
Many men often seek a woman's viewpoint on their relationships - and online many men will ask GirlShrink:) Lately, I have been talking to men who come with the same complaint, concern, cry for help-- please help, my wife won't have sex with me.
So of course I can give a more definitive answer when I'm speaking to someone one on one, but here on The Cheating Wife, I can offer some general direction.
First - Houston, there's a problem! If your wife - not you - but your wife is the one enforcing the celibacy in your marriage then you have every right to be concerned. Sexual intimacy is a normal part of marriage and should be something that a couple looks forward to sharing. When it is one-sided like this - it can be frustrating to say the least. But what this is usually about is a breakdown in communication somewhere.
Second - If you didn't have a really good sex life to begin with, then you really shouldn't really be surprised that it has dwindled down to, well uh, nothing. That means there was an issue way before the sex stopped. Either your levels of interest were always mismatched or she doesn't like it. And maybe not with you - or more likely not at all.
Third - Did she have a baby? There are serious hormonal fluctuations when a woman carries and then delivers a baby. She may be unbalanced and therefore lacks desire. Or she may have gained weight or acquired sagging breasts that she is uncomfortable with. Having a baby can change your body.
Fourth - Have you been together a long time? Maybe she doesn't feel that you find her desirable anymore. Maybe she feels as if the sex is all a robotic "fix" that you need but not necessarily desire from her.
Fifth - Has the marriage taken a turn? Have you been arguing a lot? Shutting down a lot? Avoiding each other? A sexless marriage is always a symptom of something bigger or something else going on. Or worse - boredom.
Do I need to go on?
Finally, if your wife refuses to have sex with you, it doesn't mean that she is having sex with someone else. But it does mean that there is a serious problem that needs to be addressed so that neither of you choose that path out of frustration and feelings of rejection. Sit her down and talk about it tonight:)
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--GirlShrink
http://www.girlshrink.com
According to statistics, nearly a third of American spouses will commit adultery during their relationship. If this is you or even worse your spouse, then this is the right book for you to read -- right away!
Cheaters: The 7 Step Guide On What To Do About A Cheater
Get your Free Infidelity Guide today!
So of course I can give a more definitive answer when I'm speaking to someone one on one, but here on The Cheating Wife, I can offer some general direction.
First - Houston, there's a problem! If your wife - not you - but your wife is the one enforcing the celibacy in your marriage then you have every right to be concerned. Sexual intimacy is a normal part of marriage and should be something that a couple looks forward to sharing. When it is one-sided like this - it can be frustrating to say the least. But what this is usually about is a breakdown in communication somewhere.
Second - If you didn't have a really good sex life to begin with, then you really shouldn't really be surprised that it has dwindled down to, well uh, nothing. That means there was an issue way before the sex stopped. Either your levels of interest were always mismatched or she doesn't like it. And maybe not with you - or more likely not at all.
Third - Did she have a baby? There are serious hormonal fluctuations when a woman carries and then delivers a baby. She may be unbalanced and therefore lacks desire. Or she may have gained weight or acquired sagging breasts that she is uncomfortable with. Having a baby can change your body.
Fourth - Have you been together a long time? Maybe she doesn't feel that you find her desirable anymore. Maybe she feels as if the sex is all a robotic "fix" that you need but not necessarily desire from her.
Fifth - Has the marriage taken a turn? Have you been arguing a lot? Shutting down a lot? Avoiding each other? A sexless marriage is always a symptom of something bigger or something else going on. Or worse - boredom.
Do I need to go on?
Finally, if your wife refuses to have sex with you, it doesn't mean that she is having sex with someone else. But it does mean that there is a serious problem that needs to be addressed so that neither of you choose that path out of frustration and feelings of rejection. Sit her down and talk about it tonight:)
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--GirlShrink
http://www.girlshrink.com
According to statistics, nearly a third of American spouses will commit adultery during their relationship. If this is you or even worse your spouse, then this is the right book for you to read -- right away!
Cheaters: The 7 Step Guide On What To Do About A Cheater
Get your Free Infidelity Guide today!
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