I Don't Want To Cheat

There are people who really don't want to cheat on their significant other, but feel almost as if they have no other recourse. They've exhausted all possibilities (but not really:) and feel that if their needs aren't being met at home - they WILL get them met.

If this sounds like you...you have a HUGE sense of entitlement in this world. No one owes you a fantastic relationship. They take work. And I'm almost 100% sure that you haven't exhausted all your options.

If you feel that this is your last option, what about ending a relationship that is about to be standing on a house of lies? Ending it would be much braver and healthier for both parties. Even if there are kids involved. Think about the trust issues of a child who grows up in a cheater's home.

So if you don't want to cheat - just don't. And try therapy one more time. Try talking it out one more time. Try talking to your Pastor, Priest, or Rabbi one more time. Try reading that sex self-help book together one more time. Try working out your money problems one more time. Whatever it is - try fixing it one more time. Because going outside of your relationship, I can guarantee you, does nothing but complicate things. Even if they never find out. You will know...


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--GirlShrink
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What About The Kids?


Statistics don't lie. More and more women are cheating on their boyfriends and husbands. Women have decided to indulge their desire for complete idiocy - just like men!

Rumor has it that a famous celebrity singer is having an affair with a married woman who has two small children with her unassuming husband. And by the way, the singer is cheating on his girlfriend as well!

What's going on. A hot male singer - I almost am not surprised. A married mother of two with so much to lose? You, I'm a little surprised about!

What about the kids folks? If you are going through a rough patch in your marriage or you're disillusioned with your marriage or more likely yourself...think about your children. Cheating deeply affects your children. Because they ALWAYS find out. You either lose your mind from the sex and tell them or they figure out where mommy has been spending all her time.

If you need a reason. Let it be the kids ladies! Your affair can completely undo all the good that Baby Einstein may have provided:)