Is Her Cheating Out of Character?

There are some spouses who are not REALLY surprised if they catch their spouses cheating. Usually because they have suspected it all along or at least felt for sometime that something wasn't quite right.

But then there are many of you who are taken completely by surprise. And sometimes rightly so. Sometimes a spouse is cheating and its completely out of character for her because she is under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

Make sure that there isn't a bigger issue in your marriage. If there is drug or alcohol abuse -- then your wife's infidelity's are only a by-product of a bigger issue.

Rule out those things first if you are completely baffled. Because there are soccer moms hooked on crystal meth, stripping online via webcam, and sleeping with the school's gym teacher. Make sure that isn't your life!

If you think or know that addiction is your battle and you are looking for some solutions try working on eliminating the addiction first--with a little all-natural help.

Much success to you!
--GirlShrink
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Catching Your Cheating Spouse in the Act!

Infidelity is a serious betrayal. And people do not take it lightly. In fact, I haven't met anyone to date who didn't care that their partner was cheating. Even if they weren't surprised by it - it still hurt. And of course there was always the chance that their partner wouldn't do what they thought they would do.

So if you are pretty sure that your spouse or mate is cheating on you - you are probably angry or hurt or confused right now. You're not exactly sure what to do, but you do know that when its time to approach him or her you want to be sure. You want to have facts. You don't want to leave any room for him or her to wiggle out of the accusation. And of course you want to be right when you go accusing people of cheating!

So you begin to fantasize about being a fly on the wall. Buying video cameras! Listening devices! Private investigators. But should you do all that to catch your cheating spouse?

Should you expend all that energy, time, and money into proving to him or her and ultimately yourself that they are being unfaithful and untrustworthy?

Honestly--I say no. I am a BIG believer of following your instincts. If you "know" in your gut that your mate is up to no good the first time, second time, etc., then you should probably act on those feelings--within reason of course.

If you know yourself to be paranoid when it comes to trust issues, then perhaps your "gut" could lead you astray. But if you know yourself to be basically a rational person, and if you suspect your partner is up to something, you are probably right.

If listening to your inner voice is not what you are trying to hear, then I suggest you begin your investigation on a smaller-scale basis. Several clients I know have tried an online investigation site that is a fraction of the cost of hiring a private investigator and is really more discreet. No meeting anyone or talking on the phone.

With today's information age, there are plenty of sites that make it possible for you to track down information on your mate or who he or she is cheating with.

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--GirlShrink
http://www.girlshrink.com

According to statistics, nearly a third of American spouses will commit adultery during their relationship. If this is you or even worse your spouse, then this is the right book for you to read -- right away!

Cheaters: The 7 Step Guide On What To Do About A Cheater

Get your free guide here: Get Free Guide!

I Married The Wrong Person

There is nothing more frightening, I imagine, for a spouse to realize that he or she has married the wrong person.

I mean that's a strong statement. But people tell me that quite often.

But there's a reason why a lot of men run from marriage - it's a binding agreement. On paper and in your head.

And someone who realizes that they have married the wrong person begins to feel trapped. Smothered. Like there is no way out. Because of course asking someone for a divorce is a serious thing. Leaving one life to begin a whole new other one is serious business.

But what on earth are your options if you married the wrong person?

Well, like many men and women around the globe - spouses don't leave - they cheat.

If you are in a 13 year marriage and knew in year 2 that you made a horrible mistake - ask yourself what are you doing?

Someone is going to get hurt. And it could be you.

Either make the effort to love the relationship that you are in and committed to you - or walk away.

Even cheating on the WRONG person is simply...not a very nice thing to do!

-GirlShrink

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