Cheating is Forever

Some people believe that a one-night-stand or a brief affair can be fixed and forgotten like any small error.
Not!

If you are in place in your marriage where you are considering having an affair - then go to the source of that problem and try to fix it. Going outside of your relationship will only complicate things. And not because it is the "wrong" thing to do. The immoral thing to do. The immature choice to make. But because it will forever be with you. You will NEVER forget it.

*Mary was a woman who was patiently waiting to marry her beau of 5 years. Problem was - was that he just wasn't there. He wasn't ready. And finally, something in Mary gave up. She didn't believe in her relationship any longer. She knew that she was never going to get married. Not to him. And as fate would have it she met Phillip.

Mary and Phillip were inseparable for about four months. And they were months of some of the best sex of her life. And here comes fate again - acting funny - and Mary's beau decides that he can't live without her and proposes on a moonlit night in July. Mary accepts. Marries him. But almost every time she has sex with her husband - she sees a flash of Phillip. Now that's not good for a new marriage...or any marriage.

We all may occasionally think about an old lover - hey, that's the chance you take when you marry someone who isn't a virgin:) But having these little one-night-stands and occasional office affairs - will only complicate your marriage and will always assure that it isn't just the two of you in the bedroom - there will always be three. And three's a crowd!

*Names changed

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The Kids Are Driving Me Crazy

Sometimes a wife who considers cheating on her husband is simply overwhelmed with life. Her house is a wreck. Her kids are driving her crazy. Her job is stressing her out. And there just never seems to be enough hours in the day to attend to her needs as well as everyone else's in the house.

Idea? "Why not find someone who values my time a little more than they seem to do at home."

Result? The Cheating Wife.

Solution? There is nothing sexier than a man who REALLY attempts to lighten the load. Wash a few dishes. Go over the kid's homework. Clean up the kitchen. Pick up the clothes lying on the floor of the kid's rooms. Call the plumber and stop thinking you can fix it later. You haven't!

If you are part of the process of alleviating her frustration - she won't need to go elsewhere to relieve it.

Makes sense doesn't it? Believe me it works.

Much Success!

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